Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Fleeting Thought #5


Over 50 men have messaged me on Plenty Of Fish since joining about a month ago. Its nice that the website keeps track of it for you, and kind of depressing. Of those 50-plus men I have responded to about 10 of them, if that. I have been on a date with one. 15 have asked me for sex upfront or some form of porno style activity. I have been asked about my breast size only once, by a young college boy.
 In their initial first message to me about 40 decided to compliment me on my "nice body" or smile as the ice breaker.  Approx 10 have messaged me again after I ignored their initial message. I would say 5 men turned out to be jerks after reeling me in with their nice pick up lines and timely responses back in our message  feed, but then started to show their true colors. 10 out of the the 50 were over the age of 30. 6 or so have given me their numbers upfront. Lastly about 15 men have messaged me in a polite and confident way. Ladies this just goes to show; just because men find you attractive that in no way means a) you will find them attractive b)  they will speak to you with respect c) they are even first date material. Until I find one that fits all of these requirements I will soldier on!

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